If you are not an event planner by profession your nuptials can easily be the biggest event that you have planned. Therefore it is understandable that you would be feeling apprehensive and stressed out about this day. That is because you know without prior experience you would not know what you are doing. Therefore you are more susceptible to making mistakes. Thus the thought of making mistakes would further frighten you. This would then lead to further mistakes. You may think that this is a vicious cycle that you have no hope of escaping. But that is not true. If you educate yourself about the planning process no such mistakes would happen.
As soon as we get engaged we begin to peruse the internet for inspiration. When we do this we would discover popular Sydney wedding photographers and other vendors that celebrities may have used. However, when we see the images taken at these ceremonies we fall in love. Therefore we try to recreate them. However, you need to understand that at the end of the day this is only one event. You would have an entire life to look forward to. Therefore it does not matter whether you had a limousine to ride to the church or not. Hence, you should try to avoid depleting your savings by the end of this ceremony. Instead, try to create a budget. This would help you determine how much you can spend on this day. Furthermore, it would also help to reduce overspending.
Getting Drunk The Night Before
Many couples tend to think that their last celebration as single individuals should be held the night before the wedding. We can tell you right now that this can easily be the worst mistake of your life. That is because getting drunk means you would wake up the next day with a raging hangover. Furthermore, your appearance would not be that much better. Therefore no matter how good your wedding photographer maybe he/she would not be able to erase the signs from the photographs. Therefore if you don’t wish to look at your hangover self in the years to come avoid celebrating the night before. Instead, attempt to plan the bachelor/bachelorette parties at least a couple of weeks before the big day.
The Couple Should Be Involved
We understand that in the past traditionally the planning process was undertaken by the bride to be. However, this is not the past. Therefore you should not exclude the groom. Instead, try to include him by also taking his opinions into consideration.We cannot tell you that there would not be any mistakes on this day. But if you follow this guide the mistakes would not be anything major.